This time of year is a time to celebrate - but also a time to step back, look over the past year and those beyond it, and reflect on where we are now.
Just this afternoon, two of my friends have blogged within just minutes of each other. One celebrating her year, so full of fun and friendship, travel and tantalising tastes, that she says she has been too busy to blog about them. Another looking back at Christmasses past, spent with a loved one who is no longer with her in person, but clearly still very much in her heart and her mind.
Two very different blogs, two very different people, yet both have been important people in my life.
This afternoon, they have both made me realise that this is the perfect time of year for remembering all those people who are or have been important to me. All those who have helped shape the person I am now. All those who have been there for me when I needed them. All those who have contributed to my huge stash of happy memories - so many good times to look back on, from so many eras. And all those who love me for who I am. You know who you are.
For all of you - friends and family, past and present, I wish you the very best of Christmasses and a wonderful 2013, together with a huge thank you for being part of my life.
(And just in case you're getting worried, don't - the soppy phase will pass pretty soon, and I'll be back to my usual stiff-upper-lip British self!)
Sightseeing, crafting, making new friends and keeping old ones.... all part of our three years (1096 days) in hot and often sunny Kuala Lumpur.
22 December 2012
A time to ponder
3 November 2012
"The Best Thing I've Ever Done!"
... that was Caitie's verdict on parasailing, shortly after she took to the skies under a rainbow-coloured sail for the first time.
We had gone to Penang - an island just off the north west coast of Malaysia, connected to the mainland by an impressively long bridge - and were staying at a fantastic beach resort at Batu Ferrenghi. Which I can't help think sounds like a place from Star Trek DS9, but apparently it means foreigner's rock.
From our room we had a wonderful view of the sea, and the many colourful parasails, and it wasn't long before Caitie was asking if she could have a go.
Alex agreed to go with her, and off they went! They were harnessed up and clipped to the parasail, the parasail was connected to the speedboat, and within seconds of being told to run along the beach, they were airborne.
They were in the air for five minutes or so before landing, in a slightly undignified manner, back on the beach.
Both absolutely loved it, so much so that they went again the next day.
More from Penang in future posts :)
21 October 2012
Monkeys, octopus attacks and a disturbing lack of bars....
Our decision to go to Ipoh was a last-minute one, spurred on by a public holiday weekend and a total lack of availability for accommodation in any of the more appealing places nearby. In hindsight, perhaps we should have been warned by the various comments of "Ipoh? What do you want to go there for?", and "There's nothing there!". But we thought that as one of Malaysia's state capitals, surely there had to be something there that was worth looking at, and so we set off bright and early one Saturday morning.
By a stroke of good fortune (the only one we had that weekend!), we managed to drive in on the road that goes past the stunning limestone cliffs, some of which had temples built into the side of them. These were really quite impressive. Some temples seemed to be so organically entwined with the cliffs that it was almost as if it were the temples that were there first, and the cliffs had formed around them.
And of course there were the ubiquitous monkeys, fighting, lazing around, grooming each other, and looking for any opportunity to pinch some food from somewhere or someone.
We drove on and into the centre of Ipoh, checking into our hotel which, weirdly, was spread across four different blocks with a small back-street crossroads between them. It was nothing special, but the rooms were a decent size and it was clean.
And so, a walk around Ipoh. Well, we walked and we walked, thinking all the time that surely we must be missing something. Had we skirted around the city centre without realising it? Had we headed in the wrong direction? Were the main attractions hiding just a block or two away? No - none of those, we were in exactly the right place. It's just that everyone had been right, there was nothing there! A few run-of-the-mill shops were open, but many buildings had metal shutters covering their frontage. Some may have been closed for the weekend, but some were clearly vacant. And then there were those that obviously hadn't been occupied for some time.
We wandered back to the hotel, and Alex went for a massage. Big mistake! They used some sort of cup suction technique on him (but wrongly, as it turned out), and when he returned to the room he looked like he was the victim of some sort of giant octopus attack. Big red circles all over his back (which took more than a week to disappear completely). He was not happy, and so we decided to go and find a bar and have a beer. Or two. Or three.
Nope, no bars in Ipoh, except one that looked extremely seedy, and those in the hotels.
We ended up in the hotel restaurant, where at least the food was good, even though the choice of drink was Carlsberg, Carlsberg or Carlsberg. Fortunately, we had found an open off licence on the way back, and so Alex made a mercy dash to the room to fetch the bottles we had bought. Things seemed much better after a drink or two!
Until the music started at some event the hotel was hosting. And carried on, very loudly, into the early hours. To give you an idea of just how loud it was, we both had earplugs in (an amazing piece of foresight by Alex when he was packing), and yet the music (if you could call it that) was still keeping us awake.
Tired and fed up, we checked out at 6am, and drove home.
Not the best weekend away we've ever had, but at least we gave Ipoh a go. And in the future, when people query why we might want to go somewhere and tell us there is nothing there, we will pay more attention to them!
8 October 2012
Out of Africa....
....and into Manchester!
Before I regale you with Will's adventures, a profuse apology for going AWOL. Life just got in the way, as it so often does. I'll try harder, if only for the benefit of my Mum who said somewhat plaintively last week that she keeps checking my blog for new posts but there aren't any.
So - bearing in mind that the information we receive has been somewhat thin on the ground, here's a brief resume of Will's summer.
Once his A levels were over, he headed off to Kenya for a month, with a team of 24 other students from his school plus some teachers. While there they helped to build classrooms and the furniture to put in them, and did a lot of digging - something to do with environmental work if I remember correctly. Which is perhaps an unfair summary of the hard work they did there, but I think it is a reasonably summary. No doubt Will will comment and correct me if not!
And they climbed Mount Kenya - poor Will was suffering from a decidedly dodgy stomach on the way up, and altitude-based breathing problems and chest pains on the way down, but he still made it to the top. He clearly really enjoyed the trip - he has an altruistic outlook on life (except towards his immediate family!) and found the work to be physically demanding but very rewarding.
They also saw loads of African wildlife - elephants, giraffes, all the usual suspects - and enjoyed a couple of days off by the sea.
Here's Will slapping some varnish on some school desks (look at the drips and splashes and you'll see my choice of words is pretty accurate! )
At the top of Mount Kenya:
And, I think, once they got back down from the mountain:
Make the most of these photos, because the ones of the rest of his summer, while plastered all over Facebook, are not the sort of photos I want to share with my friends and family!
Suffice to say that once back in the UK, and with us back in Malaysia, he enjoyed his freedom. He went to Reading Rock Festival, spent time with various friends including hitchiking from Cheltenham to Scotland and back (as you do!), and then on to Manchester University, where he is now studying medicine. Freshers' Week there seems to have been one huge party, but he is now knuckling down to some serious studying. (By the way, he did really well in his A levels - A* in physics, A in chemistry, biology and maths - very proud Mum :) )
Coming up - why it's not really worth going to Ipoh in Malaysia unless you're particularly fond of derelict Chinese shop houses....
11 July 2012
Kampung Life
A couple of weeks ago, Caitie, Alex and I (sans Will, as he had gone on his month-long trip to Kenya) decided to check out the East coast of Malaysia, and so spent a couple of days at Tanjong Jara resort near Terengganu.
We had been planning to look around the nearest town while there, but Alex wasn't well and we were all tired after a couple of very busy weeks, so we just stayed put, lounged by the pool, ate, drank and slept.
However, on our first day there we were lucky enough to experience the resort's version of kampung (village) life, put on to show guests some of the traditional pasttimes of Malaysia.
As we approached the make-shift kampung, it was impossible to ignore the loud "thunks" of coconuts falling from the palm trees. And equally impossible to try not to remember the old statistic about more people being killed by falling coconuts than by shark attacks. Fortunately, it transpired that the coconuts were not falling randomly, but were being harvested by a monkey.
This is quite common in this part of the world, and there are monkey training schools which teach the monkeys how to do the job properly.
This particular monkey didn't look that happy - maybe it thought Saturday should have been its day off, though it was more likely that it wasn't keen on having a long chain around its neck. Nevertheless, he did what he was supposed to, twisting the coconuts around until they became loose, and then dropping them to the ground, and was rewarded when he came down with some of the coconut milk.
Then we tried out some of the traditional games. I had a go at Congkak, a game of wit traditionally played by women. Well, it might have been a game of wit had I known what the rules were!
4 July 2012
One year on....
On July 4 last year, Caitie, Will and I left the UK and flew to Malaysia to join Alex in Kuala Lumpur. We stumbled, bleary-eyed after a long flight, into our new apartment and started the long process of settling in.
Everything seemed so new and so different, especially for the kids.
It was hot, humid, the traffic was scary, the food was weird, the malls were huge, the poorer areas really were poor - certainly very different from life in Cheltenham.
We spent the first few weeks arranging our belongings how we wanted them. Alex had unpacked everything before we arrived, but putting them where WE wanted them gave us the feeling of being just a little bit in control. And we went out and about, exploring the malls and markets and trying to work out where to find everything we needed from familar food items and pharmaceuticals to new summer clothes. We also had a week away, to a lovely tropical island resort just off the West coast - this photo was taken there, and is the first one of us all together in Malaysia.
Then September rolled around, and the kids started school. Will seemed to settle in very quickly, Caitie took much longer. I started going out and meeting people. It felt a bit like dating - tentatively asking, or being asked, if you'd like to meet for coffee, and afterwards deciding if you'd like to see them again or if in fact you had little in common with them. I did a Hello KL course with the Association of British Women - that was really good, a chance to see some places I might not otherwise have found, quite a few of which I still go back to regularly.
As the months whizzed by, life became more "normal" once again. All those things that had seemed so strange when we first arrived were now part of everyday life, and hardly noticed any more.
Now, a year on, I suppose KL has pretty much become home, or at least a second home. Family and friends are still very much missed, and there have been some times when being so far away has been very hard. It goes without saying that we are very much looking forward to seeing everyone in August, when we fly back to the UK for a couple of weeks.
The excitement of being here has worn off - that can only keep going for so long! And we do complain a bit more about some of the not-so-good aspects about Malaysia, such as the atrocious plumbing and the equally atrocious traffic.
But it is still good to be here, and I don't think we have any regrets. Coming here means we have seen and done things that we wouldn't otherwise have experienced - not all good, but mostly. We live opposite a global icon (the Petronas Towers), in a truly multi-cultural community. We've been on exotic holidays, made new friends, and I've also been able to enjoy making just a little bit of difference at the girls' home. I've still not got used to the almost complete lack of seasons though! What month is it again?!